Saturday, December 31, 2016

Sonnet Update - New Diagnosis

Sonnet's health has improved so very much since she was discharged from the hospital in November.


Instead of lying on her back, she routinely sits herself up to play now.


She loved our Christmas activities, especially HER turn to add the ornament to the advent tree.


She can sit in a regular chair now.  And she has gained TEN POUNDS since she left the hospital!



She was one very, very sick little girl in the hospital and you may remember that they ran test after test after test in an attempt to get a diagnosis.  Most of the tests actually turned out fine, but the genetic testing results was not available until just this week. 

So often with my children who have really NO past medical records, there are so many tests that when the doctor suggests one more I don't really think that they are going to uncover any mysteries.  But this time they actually DID!  Sonnet has been diagnosed with a rare genetic condition - Guanidinoacetate Methyltransferase Deficiency (GAMT). GAMT is an autosomal recessive metabolic disorder that primarily affects the nervous system and muscles. It is the first observed disorder of creatine metabolism.

According to the Association for Creatine Deficiencies website, "Guanidinoacetate Methyltransferase Deficiency (GAMT) is a mutation in the GAMT gene that makes the enzyme that creates creatine, resulting in a shortage of creatine."

 

What is creatine anyway?  Creatine is a naturally-occurring amino acid (protein building block) that's found in meat and fish, and is also made by the human body in the liver, kidneys, and pancreas. It is converted into creatine phosphate or phosphocreatine and stored in the muscles, where it is used for energy.  Creatine is needed for many tissues in the body to be able to store and use energy properly. The effects of guanidinoacetate methyltransferase deficiency are most severe in organs and tissues that require large amounts of energy, such as the brain and muscles.  A shortage of creatine just doesn't allow for enough energy to support the brain and the muscles.  Thus this syndrome seems often misdiagnosed as Cerebral Palsy or mental deficits.

 

My research tells me that both of Sonnet's biological parents carried one copy of the mutated gene, but they likely had no symptoms.  She probably appeared "normal" at birth with symptoms showing later as she began to miss developmental milestones.

This diagnosis explains so much, especially the WHY to her sudden dramatic increase in seizures.  The good news is this condition can be improved.  Her doctor has ordered supplementation of  Creatine Monohydrate and L-ornithin, along with a vegetarian and low protein diet.  When this is implemented at a very young age the child has a good chance at totally reversing the syndrome.  Since Sonnet is seven-years-old her outlook isn't as good, but our physician is hopeful that we will see significant improvements in four key areas:

1. Seizures - perhaps to the point that she will not have to take her seizure medication once she obtains and maintains an adequate creatine level.

2. Cognitive ability - she likely has some permanent neurological damage, but adequate creatine levels should improve her ability to learn.

3. Muscles - we're hopeful that Sonnet ultimately won't need a wheelchair as her primary means of getting around.  Maybe she will require a walker, maybe she won't!  The original Cerebral Palsy diagnosis?  May not be at all applicable.

4. Behavior - interesting enough, what we were interpreting simply as "institutional behaviors" may in fact be a part of her syndrome.  So for those of you who have had your hair pulled, been scratched or slapped - as her creatine levels increase, these behaviors will hopefully decrease!

Sonnet will be closely followed by her doctors with blood tests and periodic specialized MRI spectroscopy of her brain to be sure her creatine levels are sufficient.  She will also see a metabolic dietician who will monitor her special diet.

We are thankful to live in a time where genetic research has allowed the discovery of these mutations and an effective treatment for many of them. We are also thankful that this was diagnosed fairly quickly - she's only been ours for six months.  Sonnet is a huge blessing to us, regardless of her "handicaps" but we are THRILLED at the prospect of improving her quality of life.






Wednesday, November 30, 2016

Time to VOTE!


As you know, I'm the "warrior" for the Hnilo family this year. They are adopting a little girl they are naming Everly.  Her story is similar to Sonnet's except even sadder.  When her previous prospective adoptive family arrived earlier this year they made the decision that her needs were just too great and returned her to her orphanage.  :(  The Hnilos are stepping out to get her home as quickly as possible.  They got the decision from USCIS (immigrations) that they agree her health needs are great and are expediting the adoption.  I'm committed to encourage them, pray for them, and raise funds as I'm able.  Here is a fun idea that you can all get involved in.

For months the adult sisters have been saying that Isaac should get to determine how HE wants his hair. We parents aren't so sure. He seems stuck on this anime style as seen in the drawing he created above! So we are putting it to a vote.

What do YOU think? Each dollar you contribute to the Hnilo family's FSP will "buy" you a vote. Simply contribute any dollar amount to their tax deductible account at http://reecesrainbow.org/112798/sponsorhnilo and then report back to this post to cast your ballot by commenting.

Isaac is on board and will comply with the vote. If he and the sisters "win" he gets to grow his hair long enough to style similar to his drawing and keep it that way for one month. If the parents win, he sticks to the status quo. We hope you will have fun with this fundraiser for the Hnilo family!

Remember each dollar is a vote, and every vote counts.   To participate donate by clicking on the link above or donate in the sidebar to Every's adoption.

UPDATED:  Isaac and his big sibs won the vote.  Stay tuned for his new do!


Thursday, November 24, 2016

Sonnet gets SMOs

Sonnet got her first pair of SMOs (Supra-Malleolar Orthosis) yesterday.  They help to give her support while standing.


She was super impressed as you can see. She would rather throw them than wear them!





Happy Thanksgiving!

We are a very thankful people this year, for sure!  We celebrated with the big meal with Ethan's mom, our adult "kids" and grandkids last weekend, so today was a relaxed day at home with no big expectations.  In fact, Tikvah had requested our Thanksgiving meal be a la Charlie Brown style with popcorn, jelly beans and toast!





 

One fun thing we did today was to let Sonnet try out her Upsee.  We have had this for a couple of months, but due to the amount of seizures she had been having, we hadn't been able to let her try it out.  In case you don't know what this is, I'll explain.  First, the adult puts on the belt, then the child puts on a vest like harness.



The child's harness is attached to the adult's support belt.


And then both put on the sandals.  There is a small one and a large one hooked together for each side.



Sinch up the straps...


And you're ready to walk!



I was able to get a short video of Sonnet walking with her Upsee for the first time, but Blogger says the file is too large to upload.  However if you would like to see it, you can watch it on YouTube here https://youtu.be/k8aFBpe0Pr8

We hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving also! 



Friday, November 18, 2016

Happy Birthday to Sonnet!

The doctors talked as if we might still be in the hospital on Sonnet's birthday.  So thankful to have her home and healthy again!  Happy Birthday sweet Sonnet!





Sunday, November 13, 2016

Sonnet is home! Thank you for your help!

Sonnet is HOME!  We left the hospital shortly before noon on Saturday.  Sonnet was soooooo happy and excited to get in her stroller!  She laughed, and giggled, and waved, and said, "Bye bye!" to everyone she saw all the way out of the hospital!  And she was so excited she had the first (very short and mild) seizure we'd seen for nearly forty-eight hours as I went to put her in the van.   We haven't seen any seizure activity since.

A glimpse of our way out....



With the cessation of the seizures I was able to feed, feed, feed her, and she regained all of the weight she had lost.  The change in my girl is astounding!  For the first time since she has been with us she is actually WELL fed and well hydrated and seizure free.  She was already vibrant and bubbly, but wow!  She is moving FAST now and into everything.  I believe our life is about to get much more interesting.

As I reflect back over the past week as a family truly in crisis, and see where entire days just seemed to vanish as the doctors attempted to bring Sonnet back from (and I quote one of the neurologists) her "scary place," I am tremendously grateful to family members, friends, and the medical staff who worked HARD and tirelessly to bring our girl back to us. 

I am keenly aware that our decision to adopt medically needy children from hard places affects everyone in our circle of influence.  Our adult kids and grandkids have sacrificed some of their share of time and attention from us (mostly without complaint) and neither they or our friends signed up to support a family in crisis.  I didn't EXPECT the help, but I am so, so thankful for it.

Many kindhearted people contacted me to ask, "Can I do anything for you?" and I appreciated that so much.  But the funny thing is, when someone is truly in a crisis you can't even THINK of what you need.  "Ideas of how to help someone in crisis" may be a future blog post, who knows?  But I want to thank you for jumping in and helping as your instincts told you.  People helped in so many creative ways.  Put together they were just what we needed to help us get through this. 

I was a HOT MESS and am speaking truth when I tell you I simply wasn't able to worry about my kids at home.  My hours were consumed with getting Little Miss the help she needed, assisting or comforting during test after test after test, researching possible solutions on my own, and mundane things like figuring out what to eat to stay alive.  Nope, not being dramatic.

Two of my adult daughters and a neighbor jumped in.  I didn't need to be concerned about the five kids at home.  They were receiving loving care, and while not happy that I was gone, they aren't the bundle of nerves I expected I might come home to. (Abigail and Jen in particular have anxiety issues.)  Tikvah was even able to get in on a roller skating party that I am sure did her a world of good.  She loves her younger siblings and expresses that often.  But it is HARD to live with siblings who are needy.  I'm so thankful she got to do something FUN.

Friends jumped in to help those caring for the kids at home.  Meals were delivered every night and are continuing through these first couple of days at home.  The primary care giver while I was away traveled a couple hundred of miles with her own three small children (she is expecting too!) and I know it was such a relief to her to not have to worry about what to feed the mob at night.  A huge thank you to those who took it upon yourselves to set up the meal train and bring meals.  It was so appreciated!
A few days into our stay Sonnet was in desperate need of a good bath.  She had gone through two sessions of having leads glued into her hair and was just a stinky baby!  I was shocked to find that the children's hospital had nothing to offer for bathing someone with her needs.  Our request for a bath chair resulted in a regular plastic chair with no supports or restraints.  Um.... guys she can't really sit up usually anyway, and is having seizures frequently!

I put out a call on Facebook for anyone local who could go to our house to pick up our Rifton Blue Wave chair so I could bathe her safely. Just moments later as I was making arrangements with a friend for the pick up, my daughter in charge at home sent me a text that the chair had ALREADY been picked up by someone else.  That fast.  Two different people were ready to drop everything and make an hour round trip to drop this off for her!  We used the chair a couple of times over the next days and it made our stay so much more pleasant.  What a huge blessing to have it brought to us, and so quickly.

While we weren't allowed to have people up to our floor at the hospital, friends found creative ways to help.  One out-of-state friend ordered a soft little doggy toy and balloons for Sonnet, and snacks for me from the gift shop and had them sent up.  Once Sonnet was feeling better she spent HOURS playing with those balloons, and is still snuggling with the stuffed dog at home -perfect!

Other friends sent up snacks, (who knew just figuring out what to eat was so hard?) and things like lip balm and lotions to make my creature comforts better. There was even ginger ball candy that was perfect for soothing my upset, nervous Mama tummy.  A couple of times when I was finding myself especially longing for a cup of good, strong coffee one would POOF appear via the concierge, having been dropped off by angels in the form of especially thoughtful friends.

Others sent notes of encouragement, posted their concern on my Facebook page, or sent text messages. It was so helpful to know that others genuinely care for Sonnet and we aren't in this alone.

And then there is the whole village of people who were praying for Sonnet.  From Facebook friends to other adoptive parents in the China groups, to in-real-life friends and their churches, to our pastors and the list goes on.  This was perhaps the biggest blessing to know people were praying.  I sincerely believe we witnessed a miracle this week.  We had a desperately sick little girl on Wednesday, and on Thursday she was on her way back to us.

Health wise, I believe she is at the best place she has ever been, but she is a sensory MESS.  She had so many glues, tapes, new soaps, etc. and she is just digging up her skin.  Please pray for some relief for her.

People tell me I'm so brave, but I'll be honest.  I'm not.  I am somewhat of a coward really, and as human as anyone else.  I don't enjoy a medical crisis, and DO enjoy my own bed.  But the bottom line is that I love Sonnet FIERCELY and just do what has to be done to see that her life is as good as we can make it.  Sometimes with a medically needy child that means taking on the medical establishment to help them see that she isn't "typical" and needs them to look outside the usual medicines.  The typical ones didn't work for her and she didn't tolerate them either.

As we were going through the discharge process I thanked the doctors for working so hard to help Sonnet, and for putting up with me cause I knew it wasn't easy at times.  One of them replied that I was a "great advocate for Sonnet."  I told her that was a very polite way of putting it.  She assured me that she was serious and not being facetious.  And that is what it comes down to as parents, isn't it?  We simply do what needs to be done for our kids.  Thank you my friends, for helping me to do that this past week.




Friday, November 11, 2016

Sonnet is in the hospital

 

  It has been a very long and scary week.  You may remember that the plan with the neurologist was to stop the seizure medicines hoping Sonnet would return to her baseline of just a seizure or two a few days a week.  This was due to the tremendous amount of side effects the medicines caused.  It was setting her back in her weight and in gaining strength, and didn't seem to control the seizures anyway.  Unfortunately the plan didn't go as expected. Her seizures began increasing last week so I gave her one of her emergency medicines.  That seemed to trigger even MORE seizures, to the point that we were seeing 40 - 50 a day over the weekend.

On Monday, under the advisement of the nurse practitioner at the neurology office (our doctor was out of the country) I took Sonnet to the emergency department.  We spent several hours there before being transferred about midnight via ambulance to the main campus of the hospital downtown.  They tried two different medicines, but the seizures still continued every five to twenty minutes around the clock.  Then things got even worse on Wednesday morning when Sonnet presented with tachycardia (fast heart rate) and some respiratory distress.  What followed was a day of test after test after test to determine if she had developed heart issues or an infection somewhere. (all tests eventually came back normal.)



Two days of not eating and drug induced EXTREME sleepiness left us really concerned.  They put her on special watch and even mentioned ICU in our conversations.  YIKES.  A feeding tube was also recommended, but they agreed to wait for one more day to see if she would improve.


Oh what a difference a day makes!  After refusing to let them give either of the two new seizure meds again (these were the 4th and 5th different ones she has been given) and  begging them to find something better for her, they tried a medicine that isn't largely prescribed for children it seems, but it WORKS FOR SONNET!  She is interested in life again and we avoided the feeding tube.  She is eating like a little piggy!  Here she is enjoying a stuffed dog and balloons that was sent up by one of her former advocates from WACAP.




The rascal made the decision for the doctors this morning and pulled out her own IV.  The nurse WANTED to replace it but agreed to wait the hour until the doctors made their rounds.  The dietician wanted it put back, but the doctors thought we ought to give her a chance to eat and drink on her own.  She is a champ.  They issue the challenge and she conquers it!  Example - Wednesday calorie count was 86.  The dietician said she would have to eat an impossible (I thought) amount by lunchtime on Thursday to avoid the tube.  Her calorie count for yesterday was nearly 1200!!!!!!

Last night we had low oxygen saturation and I awoke to a room full of people - that is freaky - giving her oxygen. They said perhaps it was just her sleeping position.  And she has a rash on her face today but three different doctors have been in to look at it. They say it just appears to be a skin irritation  and not a drug reaction, thank goodness!  The best news though is she is happy, smiling, interacting with people including waving and saying, "hi" and "Bye bye" and blowing kisses, AND she has been seizure free for over 29 hours now! 


Sonnet's wonderful neurologist came to see us at the hospital today, and it seems we may have quite a bit of work to do yet to figure out the puzzle of her health issues.  I'm thankful that we have doctors who are interested in helping us sort out the pieces.  Please keep Sonnet in your prayers as you think of her.   She is vibrant and joyous even though she has so many reasons to be anything but.  We are fighting hard to keep her health needs from stealing her joy.

Sunday, October 30, 2016

We loved our new neurologist!

I really LOVED our new neurologist AND the resident who is working with him. He says with her history he wouldn't have chosen that 2nd medication as an option.  We are so glad to see it GONE!

I was really UNHAPPY to discover through the course of these meds she has lost HALF the weight she's gained since she has been home. :(

  The doctor showed me the EEG reads from when Sonnet did the overnight monitoring in the hospital. Apparently when the report was written up it makes Sonnet's seizures look more impressive than they actually are. When one looks at the EEG readings they weren't all that significant according to the neurologist. The seizures she has on the medicines have been more frequent and way more severe than what she was having before. He told me that some kids just don't tolerate anti seizure medications.

So what to do? We now have two different types of rescue medicines. One to use if she has a seizure that lasts more than five minutes, and one to use on an "as needed" basis if she has a fever or illness that seems to spike way more seizures than usual. Our hope is that she will return to her pre-medication level of having just a few mild seizures a day.

Provided that goes as expected we are to concentrate on her therapies and her gaining back the weight, taking a break from any regular meds for six months. We'll address it then and see if we want to try a ketogenic diet or some other course of treatment at that time.

Sonnet's signature smile has been a rare sight when on the medicine.  We're so glad to see it return!

She still has some residual meds in her, but we're seeing less seizures and more of the Sassy Sonnet returning each day. I've missed her so much. Thank you for your continued prayers!

Friday, October 28, 2016

Through the Eyes of Hope - book review

It has been quite awhile since I've reviewed a book on the blog.  Rest assured I'm still reading, but life with the Little Miss hasn't allowed much blog writing time.  However, I just reviewed a book with NetGalley that is so good and so relevant to us mamas of special needs that I wanted to be sure to bring it to your attention.

Through the Eyes of Hope is the true account of the challenges faced by the Buchanan family when their son, Christopher, was born with a rare medical condition.  As a mom who all too often must advocate (ok perhaps fight is a better word) for the best treatment for my own children,  I identified with this story so much.  The hurtful comments, the judgement, the feelings of inadequacy.  BUT, Lacey Buchanan also gives us the other side of that coin that we moms must eventually get to.  The position of confidence in our role for the well being of our beloved child.

It is a story of faith, but not the smooshy kind.  This faith bears up under the raw emotions, the exhaustion, and the daily grind that comes with living The Hard.  I believe you will find yourself crying with her and cheering on the victories.  You'll also fall head over heals in love with Christopher.  Read. It.

Pre-release review.  Book is released in January.


Order from Amazon  ***HERE

** I was given a complimentary digital copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.

*** Clicking and ordering through my Amazon link donates a small percentage of your purchase to Sonnet's sensory room fund.

Sunday, October 16, 2016

Happy Birthday, Everly Mei

Did you know.... The number four is omitted in some Chinese buildings. Number 4 (四; accounting 肆; pinyin sì) is considered an unlucky number in Chinese because it is nearly homophonous to the word "death" (死 pinyin sǐ).

I am the warrior for the Hnilo family and today is their sweet daughters FOURTH birthday! Let's show her what a great number FOUR can be! Will you donate a dollar for each year she has been waiting for her family? Just four bucks. You won't miss it much, but it will be a great encouragement to her family as they work to expedite her adoption. A little bit can go a long way if we all work together.


 You can donate (tax deductible) here. http://reecesrainbow.org/112798/sponsorhnilo  or in the donate box on the right side border of this page. Thanks friends, and Happy Birthday, Everly Mei!

Saturday, October 15, 2016

New page on the blog

You may have noticed a NEW PAGE that appeared on the blog about the time of the "remodel."  Instead of advocating for a specific child this Christmas season (I was Sonnet's aka Susy's advocate last year) I am a "warrior" for a special family working hard to get their daughter home via a medical expedite.  The whole scenario makes me think of my experience with our sweet Sonnet.

You may also notice their donation box in the right side border of the blog.  All donations to them through this link with Reece's Rainbow are tax deductible.

You'll find more details about their little Everly Mei and news of their first fundraiser that actually ENDS on Sunday, October 16 at 8pm EST, so hurry!

Family Warrior for the Hnilo Family


Thursday, October 13, 2016

Blog revisions - remodeling!

Often adoptive parents ask for information about hotels or attractions in specific provinces.  Some are just curious what the office looks like where they will meet their child or some other detail.  Realizing that our four trips are scattered all over the blog I am attempting to gather the travel information about each adoption and post it along with the child's adoption timeline - yet another detail many adoptive parents study. 

During this process you will see the tabs above change from merely listing the name of the child and TIMELINE to the name, year, and province.  Hang in there while I do some remodeling.  I hope this will be helpful to those still in process.




Wednesday, October 12, 2016

Sonnet has a Secret!

You can't tell just by looking at her...


but Sonnet has a secret! 


We've discovered SpecialWundies!  I've never done a "commercial" on the blog before, but here it is.  And my disclaimer is that I have received NO COMPENSATION from the company in return for it.  This is my "I purchased the product and LOVED IT" commercial.


These are onesies for the older child!



I am so crazy about these things!


They were created by parents of a special needs child.  In their case their son was fed by a G-Tube and needed a onesie to help prevent him from pulling out his tube, and also to stand up to the heavy use by an older child with therapies and medical procedures.  All they could find to fit an older child fell apart after a few uses, was always out of stock when they needed to reorder, or were too expensive.  They decided they would have to manufacture what they needed themselves, and I'm so glad they did!  It took them two years of field testing, but SpecialWundies are available to us all now.


These are so perfect for Sonnet!  Like many children with cerebral palsy, she does an army crawl.  Her clothes just don't stand a chance at staying put.  Can we say "BRRRRRR, COLD TUMMY" when she reaches the ceramic tile floor?


  And like many children with the history of an orphanage background, she has sensory issues.  The onesie keeps her fingers out of her diaper!  Yessssssss!


SpecialWundies are made from a very soft 100% cotton, and seem to be made to last.  We don't ever want to be without one, and sometimes we go through more than one a day.  So we've orderedthree times now.  We currently have eight of these so there is always a clean one available!  They start in a size 2T and go all the way up to a size 16 (that is up to 120 pounds!)


You can find out more about the Wundies and the company's satisfaction guarantee on THEIR WEBSITE.    Sonnet says to HURRY! 



Wednesday, October 5, 2016

Certificate of Citizenship - check!


One of the last pieces of paperwork that adoptive parents wait and wait for is the Certificate of Citizenship.  So happy that it arrived today and also that all the information is correct.  (If you've been with me for awhile you may remember that Isaac's name was misspelled, and we waited an ENTIRE YEAR for his corrected document.)  Now that it has arrived we can move on to changing Sonnet's name on her social security number, readopting in the States.... it just goes on, doesn't it?  (smile)


Tuesday, October 4, 2016

We're still here!

My apologies (for the lack of posts) to those who continue to hold our family up in prayer and are interested in how we are doing.  I've been pretty much in "survival mode" for the past month.  Our Little Miss came to us with multiple medical needs, and it has proven difficult to sort them all out and get her the help she needs.

Within the first couple of weeks Sonnet saw her pediatrician and her doctor at the International Adoption Clinic which triggered other appointments with specialists. She also began Speech, Occupational and Physical therapies which she goes to each week.  They are attempting to help us obtain an appropriate feeding chair and also a stander with wheels so she can have some independent movement about the house.


Sonnet had dental work done under general anesthesia at a surgery center because of the extensive amount of work she needed.  She had seven teeth pulled, six caps and a few fillings.  Poor little dear is having to learn how to chew all over again since she somehow USED the little black nubs while eating.


Because our much loved pediatric dentist is in another state, Sonnet and I "got" to spend a couple of nights in a hotel near the surgical center.  It really wasn't fun, and I'm so glad to have that particular need behind us.

Another biggie was trying to get a diagnosis of the seizures she has been having.  A regular EEG and a brain MRI didn't give us any answers so we ended up with an in hospital stay hooked up to wires and under constant video.


This obviously wasn't something Sonnet enjoyed either!  Following that L-O-N-G test she was put on a medicine to control the seizures, but it ended up actually CAUSING seizures.  We are now in the process of weaning her off that medication and beginning a different one.

And in just a couple of days she will see the Cerebral Palsy specialist.  Whew!

Much of the last couple of weeks have been spent holding, rocking, and wearing our previously happy child who has been replaced with one who looks like the photo above much of the time.  Yes, I do believe it is caused by the medication and we are seeing some improvement with the weaning off of it.  I do miss my happy, smiling girl more than I can say though.   Please continue to keep her in your prayers.


Friday, September 2, 2016

Jen's Fancy Casts

New to us this summer was serial casting. Jen's muscles are super tight and her therapists are hoping to get a lasting stretch this way. We've spent all month going in to have another stretch and casts applied.

Her favorite color is yellow, but the therapist didn't have enough yellow to do the entire thing, so she compromised with purple casts and yellow stripes.
 


 
We're on the final set now and I'm beginning to notice a marked improvement in her walking.  Really hoping this is just the thing she's needed!
 

Therapy Fun!

Now lest you think we are going this whole conquering sensory issues alone... we have a great team of therapists who are helping and advising. 






So blessed to have access to some really good professionals!