The Little Princesses Have a New Kitchen!

I'm really excited to have a "new" adorable kitchen play set for our little princesses!  It is sturdy and should stand up to years of use.  If you are just joining us, here is the short scoop: Big sisters' play sets had sharp edges.

Our model

We needed a low budget but high quality replacement.  A friend shared a photo of an idea she saw on Etsy.

Our kitchen

The story:  I went to Goodwill and purchased an ugly, old entertainment center - on clearance of course!  It is a bit smaller than the model kitchen, but fits the area we have available just perfectly.  We found many of the supplies we needed to transform it in our garage or at the thrift shop.

 A little sanding, a lot painting, and adding little details gave us a darling toy that will no doubt see many years of happy play!

For some of you, that information is enough.  Others have frequently asked me about this project. For my friends who have have been wondering how we did it, here is the to-do list:

1.  Find an old entertainment center (the uglier the better! )

2. Remove any glass doors that came attached to the thing.


3. Lightly sand the entire piece to remove the finish, just so the paint will stick.

4. Paint in your chosen colors.  I sprayed it with gray primer then red spray paint. 

5. Attach a back to the piece...yes this SHOULD have been step  three but.... I guess I needed the opportunity to get the paint out and do parts over again.

6. Have your hubby (or some other handy person) cut doors for the refrigerator, the oven and any cabinet space you set aside.  I used "chrome" spray paint to make the appliance doors look like stainless steel. Attach hinges and hang the doors.  Oh, and if you use some magnets on the doors it helps them to stay shut! 

We chose to use the smaller section under the refrigerator for the oven and the larger area under the stove for cabinets - even though that is pretty unconventional.   The princesses' Daddy thought they needed the larger space for storage. 

7. Use your imagination for the details.

Here is what we did:

The refrigerator handle is a dowel rod and the ends are from a toilet paper holder we found in the garage.

The oven door's window is Magic Mesh (from my scrapbooking supplies) outlined in black paint left over from another project. We are still auditioning random things from the garage to be an oven handle!




 The sink is a stainless steel bowl found at Goodwill.  That was the BIG MESS picture you saw a few days ago.  A hole had to be cut in the "counter" area so the bowl would fit down inside.  You can use any faucet you find lying around.  Since we had recently moved, we didn't have the stash we used to have in the garage, so had to put out BIG BUCKS (ahem .. $10) at Walmart for the faucet.  It was one of the priciest things in the whole kitchen.  The burners were made from Magic Mesh with glittery felt glued on top.  The stove knobs are pot handles detailed with a Sharpie marker.

Ethan made the "window" from little scraps of wood and some photos that I printed of our back yard.   The curtains are fabric our oldest daughter had on hand, and Ruth sewed for us.

Those of you who have been in my living room - now the play room - have seen the AWESOME light from IKEA that hangs in there.  Of course, the little princesses needed an awesome IKEA light too... Check this out as a 99 cent after Christmas clearance sale.




Inside the oven is a rack of some sort that we found in our (real) oven drawer. You can see lots of tasty things baking on it now.

Inside the cupboard doors are drawers to keep the dishes organized.  It was a drawer unit discarded from the bedroom reorganization a few months ago.  Fits perfectly!

I'm going to say that the play room is pretty much finished now, and just in time!  Since we received our LOA, we get to send a photo book and letter to our girls.  I really wanted to include a picture of this room for them.  Here it is!

Note the awesome IKEA light!

I got the idea to take pictures of the toys inside the bins then tape a picture to the front of each bin.  This way the little princesses can find what they are looking for.  Thanks to big sisters before them, they have Little People, Potato Heads, My Little Pony, Littlest Pet Shop,  and of course, Barbie.

I hope they like it as much as we do!

LOA!!!

The all important LOA!!!  I totally wasn't expecting it today, but I received the call from our China case manager that our LOA (Letter of Acceptance) or LSC (Letter Seeking Confirmation) (it is known as both) had arrived!!! There was a big rush to get them signed and back to her in time to get copies of them and our I800 into their express mail today.  These documents sent to the USCIS  apply for approval to adopt Abigail and Jennifer specifically.  Our case manager said approval takes 1-3 weeks. 

We in the adoption world are always looking forward to that next step.  According to China Adoption Online, here is what happens after the I800 is approved:

What Happens Next

• If you haven't already, please call or send an email to find out if your I800 has been approved. Once you know that your application has been approved, you are ready to move on to the National Visa Center! 
• After approving your file, your officer will mail your approval to the National Visa Center by 2nd Day UPS Air. However, the approval isn't always mailed out the same day it's approved, so applications can take up seven days to arrive at NVC. Upon receiving your approval, the National Visa Center (NVC) will enter your information into their computer system. 
• Within 1-3 business days, the NVC will "cable" (basically emailing/sending electronically) your file to the US Embassy in Guangzhou, China. This is approval of your visa petition.
• Upon doing this, the NVC will then mail you a letter stating that your petition has been forwarded to the Embassy. Your agency needs this NVC letter in order to proceed with your adoption! Unfortunately, this letter can take up to a few weeks to arrive in the mail. So instead, ask the NVC to email you the letter as a .pdf attachment. 
• After you have received I-800 Approval and have been cabled (and gotten the NVC letter), it's time for your Article 5 letter to be issued by the US Embassy. This is a step that you don't have to really DO anything about, but it is helpful to know what is going on. Once you have emailed your NVC letter to your agency, they will forward it to their in-China representative.
  The in-China rep will take the NVC letter to the US Embassy in Guangzhou along with your DS-230 application and Parental LOA. The US Embassy only allows representatives to drop off the paperwork on certain days. (Article 5s are picked up and dropped off on Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, and Friday.)
    Why is my paperwork going to the consulate?
  The consulate needs to review your new child's visa application (the DS-230), make sure it meets the qualifications for an immigrant visa, and then signs off that everything is in order for the adoption to be completed. This is called the Article 5 letter. You cannot obtain custody of your child until the Article 5 letter is issued!
  The consulate takes a standard two weeks to complete this process. If your paperwork is dropped off on a Tuesday, it will be picked up from the consulate by your agency rep two Tuesdays later.
  Once it's picked up from the consulate, it will be delivered directly to the CCCWA for Travel Approval!   

So........ if you actually understood all of that, you are one ahead of me at this point!  Fortunately our agency will walk us through all of this, and it seems we don't really have much "to do" but wait.  The wait is predicted to be 8-12 weeks now.  We are getting close!

Now we get to send them a letter and pictures of their family and their new home.  I hope this is welcome news to them.  We are crazy excited but realize that it has to be a super scary thing for them.  If you think of them, please pray for our little ones as they process this news over the next several weeks.

Ebay Auction

A generous friend donated a box of vintage magazines and comic books to me to sell towards adoption expenses. If you, or someone you know is a collector, would you please send them our way? I've listed them on Ebay.  

Thanks!

Mystery Project Revealed

I was VERY surprised when I moved the toys up from the basement to find that the kitchen sets had broken areas on them.  They were sharp, and there was no way I was going to let children play with them like that.  So I began a search for a new (used) kitchen set.  I've been telling you about all of the great bargains I found at Once Upon a Child, but a kitchen set was NOT among them.  I did look there, but anything that seemed sturdy was three figures = too expensive for our budget.

A friend posted an Etsy idea that I totally loved!  I've been showing sneak peeks at it for the past couple of weeks as it has been in process.  Here is a scene from yesterday morning.  Sometimes it looks worse before it looks better.

Stay tuned!  It looks a lot better this evening!

Bargain Day, part 2...And we have clothes, LOTS of clothes!

Yesterday I showed you how much fun one can have with toys at a clearance sale.  Remember EVERYTHING at the sale was only a dollar!  The little princesses needed some additions to their wardrobe (we expect them to come to us literally with only the clothes they are wearing) and sweaters and jackets were a top priority. 

The little princesses come from a tropical area of China where it is HOT much of the year.  This week when we were in single digits in Ohio, they had weather that was in the high 60's.  That is their winter.  SO... when we are enjoying springtime in the 50's here (likely when they will arrive home) they are apt to think, "Wow, it is COLD here!"  So, we have coats, jackets, sweaters...

And more coats, and jackets, and sweaters....

 
 More cuteness...

And note the shirt on the end there.... BIG sister.  That is Tikvah's.  She has shot up like crazy the past couple of weeks, so it was fortunate to have this sale to allow her to move up a size!

Missed a few things.  Also didn't take a picture of the TWO hip carriers we hope to use in China.  And yes, they were only a dollar also!

So we have the beds, the bedroom decorated, we have the playroom, we have the clothes....now all we need are for the two little princesses to come HOME!

Bargain Day!

I gave away our preschool toys several years ago; so I was quite excited today when I went to the Once Upon a Child clearance sale.  As advertised, anything with a clearance tag was just ONE DOLLAR!

I have outfitted the little princesses playroom with lots of "new" toys, and only spent $10.00! 

There is a set of building toys with TWO plates - to build flowers
A little mop and bucket
Tag Reader, six books, and two National Geographic Kids Activity card sets to go with it
Polly Pocket play set
Four different computerized sounds/colors/shapes/songs toys
Fisher Price monkey with his little hut and bananas
Two View-Masters with several reels

Just take a look at this haul!

As amazing as that $10.00 buy is, just wait till you see how I rounded out their wardrobe!  Stay tuned.  My washer and dryer have been working all evening making them fresh.  I'll try to get a picture of them tomorrow.

Have you ever gone to one of these sales?  It was amazing!

Waiting is Hard

I guess it is obvious that waiting is hard.  We have all experienced that whether it be waiting for the birth of a child, waiting for an adoption, waiting for Christmas or waiting for our birthday as a child!  Now that we are within that target range of "could be any time" the wait for LOA (Letter of Acceptance) is nagging at me.  I just want to get our daughters home!

We were discussing this wait at dinner last night.  Someone told me I needed to be patient.  Hmmmm...  So I've been evaluating the whole scope of emotions over this wait, and I can honestly say it isn't that I'm pushing against the Lord's timing, being a control freak or any of those things.  I couldn't quite explain it, but I think the story and definition of "impatience" that I found on a friend's blog last night sums it up very well.  Thanks for sharing this Jane!

 

I "stole" this from a friend over at Adoption Makes Six

 

A journal post from an anonymous adoptive parent:

"Here's something I wrote about 2/3 through our first adoption process. I surely did not understand before being an expectant-adoptive-parent how hard the wait was. I did not understand how love grows before you actually meet your child. When watching my friend go through an adoption (before ours) I kept wondering why she was worried or not trusting in God's timing. I had no clue really about the emotions involved. I have since apologized to her! :-) So I have to keep that in mind when talking to people who don't understand ... to understand that I was the same way once. However, I had to "write this" to counter all the comments sent my way about trusting God (even from my husband!) I had to put into words that I could still trust in the Lord and be "impatient" but impatience had to be defined….

Impatience Defined

In our adoption process…

Impatience does not mean I don’t think everything will work out okay;

Impatience does not mean I am a control freak;

Impatience does not mean I do not trust in Providence;

Impatience does not mean I do not have confidence in my agency;

Impatience does not mean I don’t suppose my child is being cared for until I’m united;

Impatience does not mean I do not believe God’s timing is best.

Impatience simply means…I miss my child!"