Friday, October 23, 2015

Five in a Row Curriculum: Madeline


I waffled back and forth several times about whether or not to "row" the book Madeline by Ludwig Bemelmans.  Since Madeline is a orphan and she lives in a boarding school,  I was concerned that my recently adopted children would be disturbed by the similarities between her school and their previous life in the orphanage.  Ultimately the topics that I wanted to cover through this book (compassion for others and science of the human body) won out, and Madeline ended up being the second book that our little school "rowed" this semester.

My children are older than many who use this level of FIAR. Spending much of their formative years in an orphanage didn't lend itself to learning even basic science, history or geography skills, so we spend more time on a unit than the typical young student might. We also tend to row books for 2-3 weeks (3 days a week) instead of the suggested five days.
 
We love to use the FoldNLearns from the publisher (subscribe to THEIR BLOG for free access to these) to reinforce the facts and concepts learned through the stories. One of the first activities we completed was creating the “twelve little girls.” Even the boys seemed to enjoy this activity when introduced as “math manipulatives” instead of as “paper dolls.” To ensure they would stand up to daily use I put them through my laminator after the kids cut them out.






On the second day of our unit study we learned about France.We had been introduced to it in our row of How to Make an Apple Pie and See the World but we dove a little deeper in this second exposure. Since Madeline lives in France, we enjoyed looking at photos that some of my adult "kids" had taken a couple of years ago when they visited France. 

 The FoldNLearn had a fantastic visual of Paris landmarks. We were able to match the pictures up with those from the lapbook to identify the name of the landmark. They loved the resulting little accordion book  "Tour de France."






Having taken a detour for a couple of weeks to do a (non FIAR) fire/safety/first aid study, we didn't spend as long on the human body as we might have otherwise done for this book.  Note that there is a lot of potential for expanding this into an entire study of the body systems, and I saw some fabulous ideas to do so.  We chose to concentrate in the areas of staying healthy by washing hands, exercising, and eating a well balanced diet, and taking a more detailed look at only the digestive system.



To illustrate how long they should wash their hands, I asked them to sing "Happy Birthday" after putting soap on their hands.  They thought it was hysterical!  I'm still hearing the song when they wash their hands so I guess it was a successful lesson!



With our exercise segment, we checked the resting pulse rate then ran around for five minutes to see how much the pulse rate increased.




Some of the books we especially liked for the eating/digestive study were:

Eating Well by Meanie Mitchell
Health and Fitness: Healthy Food by A.R. Schaefer
Look After Yourself: Healthy Food by Angela Royston
Where Does Our Food Go? by Wiley Blevins
Our Digestive System by Susan Thames
 


We did a little experiment to illustrate what we had just read about in the books by setting up digestion in a baggy!  I told them to "eat" the bread by breaking it up into little pieces and putting it in their "stomachs" (the baggy!)  We added a little water, fidgety hands, and there you had it.  Complete instructions found at THIS LINK.


I really only got one comment that was intelligible as we were conducting this experiment, and that was from Isaac who said, "This is gross!"  Yup.  But I think they "get" what we were reading about now!


We used a paper city of Paris to review some of the landmarks we'd read about last week.  Just print on cardstock, color and cut.  You'll find it at made by joel. 





Sometimes it is fun to mix it up a little, and we did so on this day by watching the cartoon version of the book on YouTube.  Links are below if you'd like to see them:



Remember the girls that we colored and laminated on the first day of this unit?  They made great math manipulatives.  I'd been working with Isaac on odd and even numbers, but he didn't really seem to be getting it.  I think it clicked when he lined up the girls "in two straight lines."  We took away random girls and then he told me if we were left with an even or an odd number.


Rhyming words have been another challenge to my children who have English as their second language.  I loved this addition to our lapbooks that helped us find the rhyming words found in the book Madeline .


A peek inside our lapbooks -- and a note that in the case of the younger kids we often just talk through the pages instead of writing since their writing skills are still emerging.  I'm considering printing the answers for our next study so they can cut and paste them in.
 











After debating with myself so much over whether or not to study this book, I am happy that we did.  My kids really needed the lessons on handwashing, exercise and what makes up a healthy diet, and the story didn't seem to bother them at all.  It seems that *I* think more about living in an orphanage than they do.  That was just "normal" for them before they were adopted.

The theme of having compassion on others also had a strong presence in Madeline, and I especially wanted to include that in our lessons this semester.  That is still a work that is very much in progress at our house.

There were way more printables available for this book than we were able to use.  If you'd like to explore other things that people have done, here is a link to a Pinterest search for FIAR Madeline.

My final idea for you -- our stapler totally stopped working on the day we finished our unit, and I wanted to stick the pages together before they got scrambled.  I'm not sure why I didn't think of it before, but I used my comb binder (purchased used on Ebay) to bind our lapbooks.






Thursday, October 22, 2015

Archery!


One evidence that the school year is in full swing is archery lessons.  We use this as part of our official "PE program" for the older kids.


They have completed several levels of lessons and both Tikvah and Isaac are now in the advanced group.


They enjoy it a lot, and both are pretty good at it too!   

The thing about archery is that everyone can do it and everyone can have a good day at it. You don't have to be an expert.     -- Tom Barker


Adding to the fun are two of my grandsons in the same class (their nephews!) so it makes a great thing for them to do together.



If you would hit the mark [at long range], you must aim a little above it: Every arrow that flies feels the pull of the earth.     -- Henry Wadsworth Longfellow



Wednesday, October 21, 2015

New Baby!

Our kids are aunts/uncles - AGAIN!  With a big family like ours it seems there is often a new baby to hold.  Yesterday they got to hold their new niece, Georgia, who was just one day old!  She is my eleventh grandchild.  YES!  I know I'm super blessed!






The big sister (baby's Mama) threw a little party for the visiting relatives.


Welcome Georgia!  


Saturday, October 17, 2015

Please Remember Susy!

November 1 is the beginning of the Reece's Rainbow Angel Tree . Its purpose is to draw attention to and help raise adoption grant funds for special needs orphans. I have the privilege of being the warrior for a little princess with the file name of “Susy.” My goal is to raise a thousand dollars for a grant towards her adoption costs. I'll tell you more about that in a couple of weeks.

If you are friends with me in real life, on Facebook, or a reader of my blog you have seen this adorable face before. I “met” Susy a year and a half ago when she was highlighted on Red Thread Advocates, associated with the WACAP agency, and her file name at that time was “Zuza.” I immediately had a connection with this little one, and though our family's path went in another direction (we were in process for Isaac at the time) I have never forgotten about her. Indeed, who COULD forget that smile?

Susy was found at (an estimated) two years of age and came into the care of her orphanage. She had some rehabilitation as was available in her province, and can now sit and even stand while holding onto something.

I will take a side step here to say a bit about how things work in regards to the waiting children available for adoption in China. An agency may have a specific child's file assigned to them for a few months. The file is then held only by that specific agency, and only that agency can handle the child's adoption process. Generally during that period of time an agency will advocate for, and try their best to match this child's file with one of their clients or as allowed in the case of the “Special Focus” children, with a family who has yet to begin the process. This is where I came upon Zuza, when she was assigned to WACAP.




After WACAP's allotted time was up to match Zuza, her file was then assigned to Madison Adoption Associates  and they too tried to find her family, this time with the file name of Susy. Sadly after both of these agencies were unsuccessful, Zuza/Susy was relegated to the Shared List.

For those not familiar with the Shared List, it is for special needs children whose file is not assigned to any agency. The good news is that means any agency who can facilitate China adoptions may request and process the adoption. The bad news is that there are over 2000 files on the Shared List, and a child can become almost invisible in the crowd.
Total – 2107

October 5, 2015 stats:
Girls – 564 (26.8%)
Boys – 1543 (73.2%)
Dossier First – 2 (0.094%)
Aging Out (10+ years old) – 712 (33.8%), 232 girls/480 boys
Aging Out (12+ years old) – 327 (15.5%), 104 girls/223 boys 
Aging Out (13+ years old) – 175 (8.3%), 57 girls/118 boys

Breaking it down:
There are 712 children age 10 and up as of the end of October 2015. Of those 712 older children, 327 of them are 12+ and 175 of them are 13+. This means by this time next year, 175 children are aging out of the system completely.  (Statistics and graphic courtesy of Red Thread Advocates )


Friends, that is where we come in.  We must not let Susy become invisible.

When I first laid eyes on THIS PICTURE I knew that Zuza/Susy could not be just forgotten and left to the fate that the handicapped face in their country.  It is just not equipped for their differences.


Susy at age 4
Susy's file states a diagnosis of Cerebral Palsy. (Not sure what to expect?  See my post HERE.) At this time she cannot walk unassisted, take herself to the toilet, or talk. Given those factors there is always the speculation of mental delays, and the very likely institutional delay that most orphans experience. If you've met my beautiful daughters from China, you know this was pretty much them just two years ago, and look at them now! While I can't guarantee that Susy's outlook is exactly the same as theirs, I am sure that with the medical care available in the States, regular therapy and the love of a family we could see this adorable little peanut BLOSSOM big time.

I see the faces of literally dozens of Chinese orphans every month. Why does one in particular stick with me? I believe in this case it is because I am supposed to DO SOMETHING. At this point is seems that advocating for this precious one is my assignment. Do you have the room in your home and your hearts to consider making Susy a part of your family? If not, will you help me to keep searching for them? Will you pray for this precious little girl?  Don't let Susy become invisible on the Shared List! We must not forget about her!

Updated photo, Susy at nearly 6 years old, October 2015

UPDATE:  My advocacy for Susy has paid off, and she has a family working hard to quickly process their paperwork!  WE ended up getting our Preapproval from China in December of 2015.  We are thrilled that we get to be her parents!

Thursday, October 15, 2015

Mama Needs a Do-Over, book review


As the mama to children "from hard places" I am well acquainted with the do-over concept so I jumped at the chance to review this book.  We give our kids the benefit of do-overs.  Why not take advantage of them ourselves?  Lisa Pennington is an experienced mother of nine children.  She knows her stuff!  You'll find well thought out ideas to make those hard days better. 

Pennington's writing is so genuine and down to earth.  I found myself saying,  "Oh yes!  Been there!" to so many of her examples.  But beyond the writing is the challenge in each chapter to do some thinking and write out a plan of our own on how we are going to respond to those challenging days. 

This book of just eleven chapters was perfect as a devotional read in the morning -- there are suggested Bible verses for each chapter.  Let's be honest.  We all have "those days" where we want to just blow up or give up.  I believe if we'll follow through with the concepts presented here, our hard days will be not only more tolerable, but perhaps even memorable (in a good way.)

I loved this book and recommend it to my fellow adoptive moms who are in the trenches beside me.

-- I received a complementary digital copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.


Saturday, October 10, 2015

Having Fun in the Fall

Sometimes you just have to ignore the things that you "should" do, and go have fun with the kids.  Like this day.  The boys had a rocket building workshop, and the girls were slated to just stay at home.  My oldest daughter (who lives nearby) got the idea that we should go with her youngest three children and my three girls who are still at home for a fun night out at a fall festival.  After initially saying, "No way," I repented and off we went. 


The first thing we saw when we arrived was a fire-rescue truck.  We'd just completed a fire safety unit in our homeschool, and Abigail yelled, "FIRE!" while she insisted I take a picture of the truck.


The firemen were doing safety presentations, so we got in on a review of the things we had been learning that week.  Things like touching to see if the doorknob is hot, crawling if there is smoke, etc.  We even got to practice it in their "smoke house" trailer.


Next was the bounce house.  They had a little trouble actually staying on their feet to bounce, but they had a  good time anyway! 

Abigail in front.  Jen is waaaay back towards the right. 
There were other games and activities, but the favorite was the face painting booth.




Balloon animals finished off the evening.


We decided to stop for ice cream on the way home, so I called the dads and we all met up at the local McD's.


Oh the simple pleasures of life!  Look at all those smiles!

And the boys'  rockets?  Their launch date is in a couple of weeks.


Happy Fall!


Friday, October 9, 2015

Adoption Support Group Meeting


 Now that the Little Princesses have reached the mature age of NINE, they don't seem to have the massive melt downs that they used to have when allowed to stay up later on occasion.  So, we went back to the group that we'd connected with way back in 2013 when we had just begun the process to adopt from China.  It seems crazy to think that the last time we were at a meeting we just had Tikvah at home, and tonight we went with FIVE kids!

It was so refreshing to be with other people who GET IT!  Who have gone through the same intrusive processes to bring their children home.  Who have seen their children from hard places through countless doctor appointments, therapy visits, surgeries, etc. etc. etc.  and also who think NOTHING of it if your kiddo does something a little strange...

It was great to catch up with online friends face to face -- to hear where they are in the process now, and where God is leading them.  To see their kids older, more mature, more confident, and thriving with their family.  To see them take the lead in being compassionate to other children who are newly home, differently-abled, or just unsure of their welcome.

We had a nice dinner, then the kids played games while we parents talked and prayed.  Such a nice evening!